FRIEND. What does the word mean to you?
It's simple.
F for Formation of a relationship
R for Reliable
I for Intimate and Interesting
E for Endless comfort
N for Noble
D for Dare to fight for you!
Agree or not, all of us have friends. It's only up to us to choose our friends, whether they are really sincere to be your friend or not.
Everyone makes friends by saying "Hi". But after making friends, you have to categorize them into a more specific friends. For me, I've divided friends into two types of friends.
The first one would be Good Friends, as all of us will be comfortable with this type of friend category. So, good friends are friends who always care about us, going through the ups and downs together with us. They are TEASERS, who like to tease us like an arrow piercing through our heart, but what they said is just a joke, although it might be true to us. I dont mind people tease me as friends, and that's how I improve myself. Another special characteristics about my good friends are whenever they want to go for a movie or dinner or etc, they wont miss inviting you! Good friends wont hide their real face and are not hypocrites! And yeah, they did exist in my life, especially those whom I always hang out with..Guess who? Hahaha^^
The second category of friend, Bad Friends. Many might ask, if they are bad, why not just "unfriend" them? Well, as a Christian, I just cant ignore them although they are bad! They all have good heart, good attitude, and everything as what Good Friends have. But the only thing they are different from others are that they like to take advantage towards their friends. When they got no problem, they wont find you, when they got problem, they will find you. It's true, there are a lot of friends like this! Another bad thing they have is that they like to talk bad about their own friends behind their back. For those who have these kind of friends, usually they will just "unfriend" them. Yeah, what they did are right! But for me, they somehow have good sides in them, I'll just think of their good deeds instead of bad deeds. Living with hatred is not a good idea for Christians. Just keep quiet and just stay away from them if possible, but still, I will treat them as friends. So that's why I have BAD FRIENDS!
Sometimes, I would like to be alone in times of emotional imbalance period. But trust me, sometimes you cant keep sad things all by yourself, you need a TRUE FRIEND to be your listener.
So, my friends..I'm happy to have all of you..You are the shape of my life, in which you make me stronger day by day!
Monday 5 August 2013
Saturday 23 March 2013
Few years passed by..
And yeah, the last update of my blog was in the year of 2011..time flies! and I'm 22 this year!
All these years, all of us become matured physically and mentally..
All these years I've learnt the meaning of friendship, and ups and downs of my life..
Today I've just joined my friend's farewell party, and she is leaving tomorrow, she actually graduated earlier than me although both of us entered university at the same time!
Well, she will start her working life after that, a life which is totally alien to her!
So tonight, I am sitting here, thinking about my future life..and yeah, 100% my life will change as well..
As an undergraduate student, we are all enjoying university life, with lots of friends and fans! We go out for movies, picnics, crazy moments ( which I will not reveal here), but when we start our working life, stress will be there.
And more surprisingly, we will be expecting questions from our family and relatives, "Kevin, have gf already? When will you introduce her to us? Pretty or not? Bla bla bla"....Oh hello! study first okay! lol..
Sorry for the total mess of my post here..just thinking the possibilities that will happen in my future!
Well, here's a more serious but not-so-important thing that I wanna share to my fellow followers:
1) To have a partner, please please please..must have feeling towards him/her first before moving into the next step..dont depend of curiosity or ''just try'' thinking, it's so childish to me!
2) If you like a person, please please please, clarify first before it changed into LOVE!
3) If you are ready to tell her or him that you love him, please please please, be brave! Tell! Dont just wait!
4) And this is about friends, if you really dont like a friend, please please please, keep smiling to that person first and run away! At least dont make your life miserable with his/her existence!
5) Another rule is that, just ''tahan'' of whatever bad words your friends said to you or behind you! you know and I know! And I dont care!
Ahhh! Life is too complicated if you think too much! Think simple like me! Be happy always, be happy-go-lucky person!
I've noticed drastic changes in myself since secondary school till now..I become more confident in myself! And I'm dreaming of becoming a better person in the future, starting for a very simple rule," be yourself! But a slight change of yourself to be more sociable, confident, and SMILE"!
Yeah till here I can share with you guys here! Just wanna update my blog a bit..lol..nice day^^
All these years, all of us become matured physically and mentally..
All these years I've learnt the meaning of friendship, and ups and downs of my life..
Today I've just joined my friend's farewell party, and she is leaving tomorrow, she actually graduated earlier than me although both of us entered university at the same time!
Well, she will start her working life after that, a life which is totally alien to her!
So tonight, I am sitting here, thinking about my future life..and yeah, 100% my life will change as well..
As an undergraduate student, we are all enjoying university life, with lots of friends and fans! We go out for movies, picnics, crazy moments ( which I will not reveal here), but when we start our working life, stress will be there.
And more surprisingly, we will be expecting questions from our family and relatives, "Kevin, have gf already? When will you introduce her to us? Pretty or not? Bla bla bla"....Oh hello! study first okay! lol..
Sorry for the total mess of my post here..just thinking the possibilities that will happen in my future!
Well, here's a more serious but not-so-important thing that I wanna share to my fellow followers:
1) To have a partner, please please please..must have feeling towards him/her first before moving into the next step..dont depend of curiosity or ''just try'' thinking, it's so childish to me!
2) If you like a person, please please please, clarify first before it changed into LOVE!
3) If you are ready to tell her or him that you love him, please please please, be brave! Tell! Dont just wait!
4) And this is about friends, if you really dont like a friend, please please please, keep smiling to that person first and run away! At least dont make your life miserable with his/her existence!
5) Another rule is that, just ''tahan'' of whatever bad words your friends said to you or behind you! you know and I know! And I dont care!
Ahhh! Life is too complicated if you think too much! Think simple like me! Be happy always, be happy-go-lucky person!
I've noticed drastic changes in myself since secondary school till now..I become more confident in myself! And I'm dreaming of becoming a better person in the future, starting for a very simple rule," be yourself! But a slight change of yourself to be more sociable, confident, and SMILE"!
Yeah till here I can share with you guys here! Just wanna update my blog a bit..lol..nice day^^
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